Dear Gay People, My name is Otto Fong and I have been in an open relationship with my partner Han for the past 16 years. What I am about to say is probably going to earn me a lot of hate. But I believe it’s time someone in the gay community address the elephant in
Dear Straight People, Yes, it’s not easy being LGBT in Singapore. But while Singapore isn’t exactly a very gay-friendly place, it’s a heck of a lot better now than it was a few decades ago. But don’t just take my word for it. Hear it from the following 5 Singaporeans over the age of 40 who will
Dear People, Meet 41-year old Miak Siew… An openly gay pastor in Singapore! Miak is not your typical pastor. And I’m not saying that just because he’s gay. Dressed casually in the typical Singaporean ensemble of a T-shirt and shorts the first time we met, Miak certainly doesn’t fit into traditional notions of how a
Dear Straight People, Ever wondered whether a gay guy is a top or bottom? Well, the answer to that very popular question that straight people like to bombard gay men with is Source NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS. Asking us whether we are top or bottom is very intrusive, and frankly, quite rude. So
Dear Straight People, If you’ve ever wondered what goes on in Grindr, the following 10 screenshots of typical Grindr situations should give you a pretty insightful glimpse into the kind of conversations we have in the world of gay apps! 1. When he’s not your type 2. When you’re not his type 3. When he’s
Dear Gay Men, I have been asked the dreaded ‘Why don’t you have a girlfriend’ question (usually by overly anxious parents) so many times that I’ve pretty much perfected the art of deflecting the question. So here are 5 of my best comebacks to the dreaded ‘Why no girlfriend’ question that you guys may want
Dear Gay People, If you’ve ever felt like the gay community isn’t worth fighting for, trust me, you’re not the only one. Contrary to what certain institutions want you to believe, the gay community isn’t one big happy family. There is politics within the community and if you’re part of the gay scene, the internal
Dear Gay Men, At one point or another, we’ve all been in the closet before. So regardless of whether you’re currently openly gay or still stuck in the closet, here are 10 common struggles of closeted gay men that you’ll probably be able to relate to: 1. You’re perpetually paranoid about people discovering your ‘deep dark
Dear People, Meet 25-year old Singaporean Scott Lai! Growing up, Scott never really struggled much with his sexuality, largely because he never had the time to pay much thought to it. A competitive swimmer from young, Scott spent a large part of his childhood training in the pool. He would hit the pool at
Dear Gay People, Amidst the sea of headless torsos that populate Grindr, here are 10 famous faces that you would probably never expect to ever find on Grindr! 1. Lord Voldemort 2. Fa Mulan 3. Gandalf 4. Britney Spears 5. George Michael 6. Justin Bieber 7. Perez Hilton 8. Pope Benedict (I think) 9. Daria