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5 Of The Best Comebacks To The Dreaded ‘Why No Girlfriend’ Question?

Dear Gay Men, I have been asked the dreaded ‘Why don’t you have a girlfriend’ question (usually by overly anxious parents) so many times that I’ve pretty much perfected the art of deflecting the question. So here are 5 of my best comebacks to the dreaded ‘Why no girlfriend’ question that you guys may want

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What It’s Like When You Fall For Your Straight Best Friend

Dear Gay People, Falling for your straight best friend is one of the oldest clichés in the gay book. And yet, time and again, it keeps happening. Maybe it’s the lure of the forbidden fruit that our innate human nature finds irresistible. Maybe it’s due to the emotional intimacy of the friendship. Maybe it’s because

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6 Signs You’re In Love With Your Straight BFF

Dear Gay People, Most of us don’t realise that we’ve fallen for our straight best friends until it is too late. Unless you want to subject yourself to a state of emotional turmoil and drive yourself crazy, I suggest you read this post to check for any warning signs before it is too late. 1.

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How To Become High-Profile

Dear Gay People, If you want to climb the imaginary gay social ladder, then you’ve come to the right place. This article will teach you everything you need to know about becoming ‘high-profile’ in the gay scene. By ‘high-profile’, I mean a lot of people in the gay community will know who you are but

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How To Behave When You Encounter A Gay Couple

Dear Straight People, If you’ve ever encountered a gay couple blatantly behaving like a gay couple in public before, chances are that you probably did one of the following 5 things which you really shouldn’t have. In order not to repeat your mistake, here are 5 tips that you should really take note of should

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7 Things Straight People Need To Stop Saying To Gay People!

Dear Straight People, Here are 7 things you all really need to stop saying to gay people! ‘You don’t seem gay’ Seriously, straight people need to stop subscribing to the ridiculous gay stereotypes that the media has managed to cook up for us. For the record, not all gay people wear brightly coloured clothes, gym

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Top 5 Grindr Tips!

 Dear Gay People, Regardless of whether you guys will admit it or not, many of you need some serious intervention in your Grinding habits. Check out the following top 5 tips that might make your time on Grindr, or other gay apps for that matter, slightly more fulfilling! 1. Not getting a response is a

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What To Do When You Suspect That Your Friend Is Gay

Dear Straight People, Does one of your friends make your gaydar go off? Do you ever get the feeling that he or she is keeping a very big secret from you? If yes, then you really need to continue reading this article. If no, you should read it anyway because chances are, you will find

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How To Deal With Someone Who Just Came Out To You

Dear Straight People, Every time I come out to one of you, I’m usually greeted with a stunned silence. Every now and then, I elicit an uncomfortable chuckle. But most of the time, it is just a very awkward and tense silence. That reaction of course, is understandable. There is no script to follow when

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