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Confession: I Am Straight… But I Regularly Have Sex With Other Men

A straight man who regularly has sex with other men explains why having gay sex doesn’t make one gay.

Asking For Equal Treatment Isn’t Being Greedy, It’s Being Reasonable!

Dear Straight People, The LGBT community has been called many things. We have been labelled as being mentally ill, derided for being hedonistic and more recently, accused of being greedy. In fact, it’s not just the straight community that has accused the LGBT right activists of being greedy. Singapore’s most prominent gay celebrity Kumar himself has

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Why We Need To Stop Adding Letters To The ‘LGBT’ Term

Dear Gay People, Once upon a time, we were simply known as the LGBT community and everyone was happy. The LGBT acronym was effective in the sense that it was easy to remember, received widespread acceptance and managed to cover a sufficiently broad spectrum of sexual orientations (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender). Unfortunately, the LGBT term

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If You Are A Cynic Over The #PrayForParis Movement, Then You Should Read This!

Dear People, Just like the rest of you, I too have been caught up in the social media storm that has erupted in the aftermath of the horrific Paris terror attacks that occurred on the 13th of November. So I’m going to take a break from writing about LGBT related issues for once and instead,

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The Answer To Why Gay Men Take So Many Selfies

Dear Straight People, One of your kind recently told me that the way she differentiates gay men from the straight ones is by looking at the number of selfies he takes. If he takes more selfies than me, I automatically assume that he is gay. That line was the start of a very interesting conversation

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Why Travelling Is Over-rated!

Dear People, Millennials are obsessed with travelling. They fill themselves up with wanderlust by ogling at beautiful places that pop up on their Instagram feed. They create travel bucket lists on Pinterest. They constantly check for cheap airfares on the Internet. They save up religiously for their next big vacation. And they do all this

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How Grindr Is Ruining The Gay Scene

Dear Gay People, I think its fair to say that we all have a love-hate relationship with Grindr. Actually, it’s not just Grindr. Our contradictory feelings towards Grindr pretty much applies to all the other gay apps out there like Jack’d, Planet Romeo etc. We swear off them one day. Find our way back to

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Dear Gay Men, Stop Hating On High-Profile People!


Dear Gay Men, Please stop hating on high-profile people! For the benefit of all the confused straight people reading this, high-profile people, also known as ‘high-profilers’, refer to the pseudo-celebrities of the gay community. While there is no actual criteria set for determining who is considered a high-profiler, high-profilers all enjoy a large social media following, usually

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